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Truth
Truth is often hidden beneath layers of conditioning, confusion, and misdirection. Yet beneath it all, one simple truth remains:
Your most important task in this lifetime is to learn how to love yourself.
To become your own safe haven.
To become the love of your life.
To awaken to the magnificent love-generating being you were always designed to be.
A loving world cannot be built by people who are disconnected from themselves. Nor can you thrive, create, or contribute fully while withholding love from your own heart. Self-love is not a luxury. It is a necessity.
And it is your responsibility.
No one else can do it for you.
Your responsibility is to become the one who loves you.
I am a teacher, a spiritual seeker who became devoted to helping others remember who they truly are. For more than twenty-five years, I have guided people in uncovering the layers of conditioning that prevent them from experiencing the love, acceptance, and freedom that are already available within them.
In all those years, I have never met a single person who was naturally taught how to love themselves deeply and unconditionally.
Perhaps that is because awakening asks something profound of us. It asks us to embrace our humanity in its entirety. Our mistakes. Our blind spots. Our fears. Our failures. Even our darkest moments.
Not because suffering is the goal, but because every experience carries within it the potential to deepen our understanding of love.
The path to compassion often leads through struggle.
The path to trust often passes through uncertainty.
And the path to self-love requires that we stop abandoning ourselves when life becomes difficult.
My role as a teacher is not to give you something you lack. It is to help you remember what you already know.
To reveal the wisdom that is already alive within you.
To help you recognise the unmistakable resonance of truth—and to experience its harmony in your own heart.
I was not born knowing how to love myself either.
Like many others, I had to walk through years of challenge, uncertainty, and transformation. Guided by Spirit, life itself became my teacher. Through that journey, I learned not only to find grace, but to embody it.
And it is from that lived experience that I now guide others home to themselves.
Truth
My gift was present long before I understood who I was or what I had come here to offer. It revealed itself gradually-through fleeting moments of insight, unexpected recognitions, and years of searching. Only with time did I begin to see clearly what I was made of.
Looking back, every step was worth it. The effort, the uncertainty, even the periods of despair. They all became part of the path that led me home to myself.
One of my gifts is the ability to see beyond the stories people tell about themselves. Beyond their achievements, struggles, opinions, fears, and wounds. I see something deeper: the essence of who they are.
This way of seeing has been the source of my hope and the foundation of my joy in being alive.
Most of us were taught to see ourselves through a narrow lens- through our limitations, our mistakes, our past, and the judgments of others. Yet Spirit reminds us again and again that we are infinitely more than we imagine ourselves to be.
You are far greater than your conditioning.
Far greater than your fears.
Far greater than the story you have been told about yourself.
The extraordinary being that you are- the living, breathing miracle beneath all appearances—deserves to be seen with clear and loving eyes.
Because when you truly see yourself, accept yourself, and make space for all that you are, something begins to shift. Self-doubt loosens its grip. Loneliness softens. The inner struggle loses its power.
And the love that has always lived within you can finally flow as it was meant to.
I see human beings through eyes that have been softened, opened, and healed by Spirit. And this is what I teach.
I teach people how to heal the way they see themselves.
How to develop eyes that recognise truth instead of fear.
How to look beyond limitation and reconnect with the wisdom, beauty, and wholeness that have always been there.
Because the world does not need a diminished version of you.
It needs the truthful you.
The one who can love.
The one who can forgive.
The one who can begin again.
The one who can transform pain into wisdom and bring light into places that once felt hopeless.
That is who you truly are.
And I can say with complete certainty: you deserve to meet that person.
You deserve to discover the extraordinary being that lives beneath the layers of doubt and conditioning.
You deserve to fall in love with yourself.
I am here to help you find your way there.
Ruth Shalev
Trance Medium, Healer and a Spiritual Teacher.
The real, authentic me, living a blissful, optimistic life I’ve consciously created.
Happily married, mother of two. Based in Haarlem, Netherlands.
Born into hardship, revived and guided by extraordinary souls and Spirit.
Channeling, seeing, and knowing since the age of four.
For 25 years, I’ve been healing, teaching, and inspiring humans to reconnect with their true selves.
Author of two books, channeled through Spirit.
I help people see, feel, and embody their own truth, to bring their essential, loving, trustful voice into the world.
That’s my mission, my passion, my truth.